Tips To Good Sex

How can you transform your sex life from average to great? Firstly learn some tips to good sex as revealed here.

The first sex tip is to improve your foreplay by varying what you do and generally increasing it's length in time. Women especially appreciate longer foreplay sessions as it gives them time to become very sexually aroused, whereas shorter foreplay of only ten or twenty minutes won't get women as hot and aroused as they can become.

Try and make foreplay last over half an hour, and the first half of that should not involve any touching of her breasts or vagina. Just make out with each other passionately and caress each others bodies. Smell and kiss her neck, take time undressing her and kiss her back. Take time with this and enjoy each others bodies without focusing on each others private areas. You'll soon see how intimate you can make foreplay without going straight for breasts, vagina (or her touching your penis).

A good idea is to set the scene with low lighting, scented candles and soft music. This creates a sensual and relaxing environment to make love in, which is the perfect combination of factors for a long session. There's obviously nothing wrong with spontaneous sex and quickies, but longer romantic lovemaking sessions are usually the most special and make for the best sex as they can often be the most immersive, pleasurable and intimate.

While men are usually ready for penetrative sex very quickly, women tend to need longer to "warm up" and get aroused. But there is also the sexual turn on of anticipation that women are especially aroused by. Giving a woman instant gratification by going down on her straight away is not taking advantage of this aspect of anticipation. Instead build up slowly to doing so.

When you eventually do give her oral pleasure tease her a little by going down on her for a few seconds then kissing somewhere else such as her upper inner thighs or lower stomach above the pubic bone. Do this many times, giving a few moments of attention onto her vagina and then focusing elsewhere for a minute.

Women should make sure they are clean and that they look as sexy as possible and go to the effort of wearing some nice lingerie and having some sexy make up on. Guys are very visually aroused so this heightens this pleasure for them greatly.

Another way to visually turn a guy on is to give him a striptease or even a lapdance as part of some early foreplay.

Another essential sex tip for guys is to focus on the clitoris when doing down on a woman. This is her most sexually sensitive part of her body and most women easily orgasm from oral sex that focuses on their clitoris.

When it comes to penetrative sex it's important that the man is dominant and directs the show. This is a turn on for women as it taps into the sexual theme and fantasy of her being dominated sexually. Choose the sexual positions by either physically leading her or verbally directing her. As well as being soft and tender, make sure you are also rough and aggressive when having sex with her.

Tugging her hair and slapping her behind are other ways you can assert dominance during sex and it makes for a very animalistic and pleasurable sexual experience.

Overall then a good tip for sex is to start off very slowly, making foreplay very long and incorprating teasing into it. When the penetrative sex begins move towards a more aggressive and animalistic mindset. This way you use a wide range of physical, psychological and emotional stimulation.

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Good Sex Tips For Women

Want to learn how to drive your man wild with desire and give him as much pleasure in the bedroom as humanely possible? Then read these rather good sex tips for women and become a sex goddess.

Men are very visual so dress up in a sexy outfit like a french maid costume. Or start the evening off with some visual foreplay by giving a striptease down to some erotic lingerie. It's also important to be clean and fresh, and men tend to prefer shaven to hairy!

When it comes to foreplay you can really drive your man wild by teasing him. One way to do this is when you give a striptease delay letting him touch you. Slap his hands away when he tries. Another good teasing technique during foreplay is when you are passionately kissing him and he reaches for your breast (or other private area), move his hand away and don't let him touch you there, at least for the first couple of times he tries.

After you've teased him visually by wearing something sexy and doing a striptease, blindfold him and allow him to caress your body. Now he can feel you but can't see you. This is another way to tease and heighten a specific sense.

There are a couple of good ways to make sex more pleasurable using the dynamics of dominance and submission. One way is to be totally submissive and allow the man to call all the shots and decide which positions to use. Give yourself to him completely.

Another way is to reverse the typical role and dominate the man. This means taking the proactive sexual positions such as cowgirl (girl on top) and reverse cowgirl (girl on top facing feet end of partner). It also requires being aggressive during sex.

Another tip is to vocalize your enjoyment during sex as men like to hear and know that their partner is enjoying the experience. You shouldn't go as far as faking an orgasm but definitely make some noise when you're enjoying yourself.

A key to enjoying yourself, assuming your partner is competent in the bedroom, is to relax and not worry about your performance. As long as you can relax you'll be able to enjoy the sexual sensations more and be better able to express yourself sexually.

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